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what women want??
"you never know what's going on inside a women's head"- that's what I always hear. People have written books , made movies, published journals and they have all been very hit. But, all have carefully or cleverly left it unanswered at the end. I have read John Gray's well-known" Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus,", to get into a women's head, I have seen Mel Gibson'e movie "What Women Want", again for the same reason, but frankly , any book or movie on this topic will certainly entertain you but certainly not educate you completely. Why I am saying this? Try applying the same logics to any women in your life(mother, sister ,wife or girlfriend), you will realise how tough it is to apply them in practical.
Woman is a mystery. Is it right?
Maybe or maybe not. It's because they will never tell you or question you something specific. They will let you through a merry-go round until you figure a way out for the exit. I once went shopping with my mother in a near by store . It started with a promise of getting back in half an hour and guess what? We were back after four hours after a visit to multiple malls and stores.
Women don't read headlines, they want to hear the whole tale.
Yes, it's right. Try giving one word answers and be ready to face the consequence. And if the tale involves another girl or woman, then there's no escape. When wives question their husbands how's their workplace, then really they want information about women employees(a potential threat). Husbands, in no way can give a single word answer to this question. "tell me about your school days?"- when your girlfriend questions you , then please give her a vivid description about each and every person in your class(that includes girls too) ,because that is exactly what she wanted to hear.
"I am strong" feeling…
women have this "I am strong" feeling around them all the time. Once, my sister had to go to another town for a job interview. She kept telling my mother that she will hire a taxi and can go alone to the railway station. She said, she doesn't want all to take distress for a small ride to the station. Eventually, I dropped her at the station . Was she pleased? Yes, because by the time she returns, my vacations would have finished and I wouldn't be there at home to welcome her. But why wouldn't she just questioned me to drop her? I don't know. Maybe it's that "I am strong" feeling.
Ten small packages than one huge one…
My friend was working on a project and he was so busy that he neglected his girlfriend for over two months. He wouldn't receive phone calls or even met her. When his project was finally complete, he chose to delay meeting her for a few more days because he wanted to surprise her in a huge way. He eventually threw a huge party for her. She was pleased, he too was pleased. But, he repeated the same thing next year and before we could get another party, they broke-up. And right! She broke-up with him. A girl never appreciates when you throw a huge party or book an expensive hotel for her after remaining underground for months. All she want is like and affection in small packages at regular intervals. Huge packages are welcomed only when followed by small ones. In most cases, small packages can do the job alone.
I talk, u listen…
That's what all women want and that's the reason why most couple fight. John gray, in his book, has superbly clarified how women expect their partners to hear them out. Is there's a problem? Do they feel stressed out? did they had a terrible day? Then the only solution is for their partner to sit close to them, hug them and listen them patiently. Women are least bothered about solutions. They are most satisfied when they feel there's someone who cares for them and who supports them.
If you look above again, then all the points presented points us towards one direction. Women want emotional stability. They want someone to shower like; they want someone to show affection and they want someone to respect them. Women may be accused of being too demanding, too materialistic, too complaining but all these vanishes when you assure them of the emotional stability they want. I wouldn't dare to say that this is all you need to become an expert in this field but it certainly can make you know her better. But……
CAUTION: when with women, the unexpected always happen.
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