An Excerpt From David DeAngelo’s “Secrets to Naturally Attract Women”
Below is an article by David DeAngelo on how to Naturally Attract Women.
It really stroke a cord in me when I first read it some years ago, in the infancy of my adventures to meeting and courting women. While I understood it logically at the time, it was quite hard to place the theories into practice.
With more interactions over time, these thoughts along with many others really gelled into my reality and made me internalize the concept of being naturally attractive to women. So check out the article, whether you are a beginner, intermediate or GODLIKE, I'm sure you'll find some valuable points. Here it is... delight in!
Attract Women
“The Concept Of Cool”
A major realization I had while watching my friends who were naturally excellent with women was that they had a “cool” vibe that women would instantly pick up on.
I noticed that when they met women, they would always have the attitude that the women were LUCKY to be talking to them. It was as if they subtly said “Do you KNOW who I am?” without really saying it, and without coming off as arrogant.
After watching enough of these guys, I came to realize that learning to be naturally cool might be the most vital thing you can do to attract women.
I know many cool guys who don't have it all together, yet they always have women. I also know a lot of “not-cool” guys who are very successful in all areas of their lives - with the EXCEPTION of women and dating.
A cool, confident guy doesn't beat around the bush. He'll always say what's on his mind because he knows that people value what he has to say, and he's not worried to piss someone off.
The trick is to learn and internalize the universal traits of “naturally cool” guys.
Here's a PARTIAL list of these powerful traits - pay careful attention to each one:
- The naturally cool guy doesn't care what people reckon about him.
A cool guy never places excessive meaning on any one interaction. He knows he can't please everyone, and he is really OK with it.
- His respect and friendship must be EARNED.
To gain his respect, you have to either be a friend of a friend, or show him that you are also cool. This holds right for both the men and women they meet. They give no “bonus points” for status, looks, or material possessions.
- He is open and honest, and never worried to state his opinion.
A cool, confident guy doesn't beat around the bush. He'll always say what's on his mind because he knows that people value what he has to say, and he's not worried to piss someone off.
- He is decisive.
If you question him if he wants to go somewhere, he won't say “I don't know” or “what do you want to do?” He'll tell you “yes” or “no”, whether he thinks it's what you want to hear or not.
- He is confident in his decisions
If you tell him his shirt is hideous, he'll tell you that you have horrible taste in clothing
- What he is doing is always the best thing going.
If a woman is talking to him about the fantastic time she had on Saturday night, you'll never hear him say, “I wish I would have been there.” He knows that whatever he was doing was either more fun or more vital.
- He is always the best thing going.
If a woman talks about another guy, he will always have the subtle undertone that she would have a much better time with him.
- Women never come first in his life.
He always has a purpose or a priority that is more vital to him than SHE is, and no woman will ever control him.
Take a minute and review these traits - find ways you can “internalize” them and make them your own.
When you do, you'll find they become an “automatic” part of who you are - and women will find themselves “naturally” attracted to you.
Read the entire Attract Women article here:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/meeting-women/secret-being-naturally-cool.html
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