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Q&A: Is it ok for my husband to flirt with other women? | Attract Women
Question by nay: Is it ok for my husband to flirt with other women?
I have been togeter with my husband for ten years and he has always been excellent to me but lately he has been all over other women flirting none stop.I told him how it upsets me and dont like him flirting,and he just says its only fun to do It doesn't mean anything! but i can't help but feel that is disrepectful. I have wondered if he is more full on when I'm not around.
Best answer:
Answer by jramy.kiki
no it is not ok that is what my bf said when i found out he was flirting on facebook cuz it didn't mean anything but he has stopped after i told him i didn't like it he is being very disrespectful to you
What do you reckon? Answer below!
February 12th, 2012 - 20:50
That’s never a excellent sign!
What is he doing exactly?
February 12th, 2012 - 21:47
NO that’s so disrespectful to you! and dishonest
February 12th, 2012 - 22:45
Tell him to stop or he’ll be talking to your divorce attorney . He’s being very disrespectful of you and your feelings .
February 12th, 2012 - 22:45
what kind of question is this?!? Do you reckon it’s okay for him to do it? If you do, then you don’t need nobody elses opinion, just keep getting cheated on.
February 12th, 2012 - 23:42
No it is not okay, it is disrespectful, tell him that and mean it.
February 12th, 2012 - 23:52
what you need to do is SHUT THE HELL UP AND SIT IN THE CORNER OF THE BAR AND MAKE SURE THE MANS BEER GLASS DOES NOT RUN DRY!
February 12th, 2012 - 23:54
If it’s upsetting you and is a logical issue, then no, it’s not okay. He is not showing you respect and he knows it. Perhaps he is trying to aggravate you for some reason? I say this because you stated that he only started this flirting “lately.” Can you recall if maybe you flirted with someone or he thinks you did? Some men seem oblivious (or just never learned how to hide it) that they are literally staring at a female. Others are much more sneaky. But it’s what they do. Next time he does it in front of you, walk up to the woman and question her phone number for him. I bet he stops then.
February 13th, 2012 - 00:20
i flirt with other women all the time, but that doesn’t mean i want to sleep with them. am just having fun. if i tell you how detailed i get, you would reckon i have or plot to sleep with them. But like i said, its all in the fun.
February 13th, 2012 - 00:51
Does he do it when you are right there in the same room? If he does, than he is disrespecting you or maybe you are not paying enough attention to him…..I reckon most guys flirt when they aren’t around their girl friends, does that mean its ok, well no…but we do it too so I say as long as he doesn’t go any further it’s ok.
February 13th, 2012 - 00:56
If you do not mind , let him flirt .
When you lose your passion for like / sex , of course he will flirt.
When you cannot give to him , many others readily offer .
Do up yourself , flirt with him again.
Made fantastic like / sex session until he fall in like with you again.
Bor Hor Hor !
February 13th, 2012 - 01:22
oh if he doesnt see anything incorrect with flirting then you try doing the same with the butcher and the bank manager and the post office manager then we’ll see if he still thinks its nothing.. You go girl.
February 13th, 2012 - 02:10
You need to get yourself a hot young gardner desperate housewives style and when the gardner comes for you to pay him say really seductively ‘if you need anything else just stop by’[ in front of your husband.
The world is full of temptation and some say that flirting is cheating’s hideous cousin but i say a bit of flirting helps a marriage because the spouses will be less likely to cheat if they get the flirting out of their system.
February 13th, 2012 - 02:51
No, it’s unacceptable. Maybe he’s experiencing mid-life
crisis? Flirting may lead to cheating. What’s next? And
it’s all because you tolerated it and just watch it
happening before your very eyes…
February 13th, 2012 - 03:07
No it is not ok and a husband should treat his wife with respect and dignity.
If he will not stop and this is new for him something is going on.
If he is acting like that he could me more “full on” when your not around.
I am most concerned with this if he says it is ‘nothing’ but he sees it upsets you why does he not stop? To give up ‘nothing’ because it upsets the woman you like and been with for 10 yrs should be simple.
He is balking at giving it up so it must be SOMETHING, otherwise you would not be here asking this Q.
You have to reckon do you place it to him like stop or else? What ever the or else is you will have to follow through if he flirts again or he will lose all respect for your statement and feelings.
Or do you see what his flirting is all about? Be prepared to face anything.
February 13th, 2012 - 03:38
You want your husband to treat you with respect, but you allow him to disrespect every time he’s around another woman.
Grow a back bone and place your foot down. If his flirting “doesn’t mean anything” like he says, then he won’t have a problem with knocking it off. Don’t let your husband get away with treating you like that.
If your husband won’t stop disrespecting you, then start embarrassing him when he flirts with other women. Apologize to the woman he’s flirting with. Say, I’m sorry for my husband’s behavior, he has such a problem keeping his pants zipped and remembering that he’s married.
If that doesn’t shape him up, then when he’s flirting with a woman, walk away and start talking to a man and really ignore your husband.
February 13th, 2012 - 03:58
No it is not OK. sometimes people privately might reckon Oh she looks nice etc, but never act on it. Faithfulness is just that. There is no excuse for anything less. A real man honours his wife and to flirt is disrespectful.He is not listening to your feelings. Have it out with him nd try to find out if it is a phase or are there real problems?
IE how do you get on in other ways? Does he place you down and are you still attracted to him?? Maybe life needs a lift. Other than that,
divorce is a very huge step but sometimes is unavoidable. Try some marriage counselling before you do anything too drastic. Also try being really and brutally honest with how you feel. Hubby may be shocked that you are so upset and he might respect you more. Don’t give the marriage up too easily though because all marriages have to be worked on and there are always challenges. If you are mainly pleased then try to work through it together. Divorce can be very very unpleasant especially for kids.