17Jul/1110
How does someone of my type attract women?
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Question by Henry: How does someone of my type attract women?
I'm half asian and only 5'7" small so i'm fighting an uphill battle. On top of that, i wear glasses. I'm 19 years ancient.
The thing is i reckon i have a excellent personality & yet i still have distress. I have lots of female friends, but i can't progress to a higher more intimate level and it is starting to get pretty lonely because of that.
Any tips? Anything would be greatly appreciated!
Best answer:
Answer by mystical_heart16
Drop a pill in their drink and be as intimate as you like 
LOLOL don't really....Just be yourself....if it's not meant to be it won't.
What do you reckon? Answer below!
July 17th, 2011 - 20:07
so start wearing contacts and change up a lil bit..it doesn’t matter how tall u r..these days small guys r all the rage…flirt wit the females u find attractive and jus get a fresh new style ya digg
July 17th, 2011 - 20:12
really, 5″7 isnt really small. thats like the line between small and average.
July 17th, 2011 - 20:17
Be patient. It seems like a long time, but you’ll see it will work out eventually.
July 17th, 2011 - 21:09
first of all u are not small there are loads more shorter guys than u beleive me. the key here is confidence!girls like that! why not give urself a makeover?get contact lenses (even tho theres no prob with glasses) buy new clothes, wear nice aftershave all the time.and just have fun with it they will come to you just hang in there and delight in ur single days before they are over
July 17th, 2011 - 21:45
Eurasians are gorgeous, so no problem there. Glasses are no huge deal, they make you look educated, so even better. Just be persistent and keep trying – never ever give up! One day a special lady will come into your life I promise you. Just make sure that you are yourself and she will see that. Try ballroom dancing if you want to meet women. They always are looking for more guys and the woman will throw themselves at you. Trust me!
July 17th, 2011 - 22:24
Be urself thats what i lik when i am around a guy but find a girl that likes who u are not somebody u arent. dont worry one day u will find a girl who likes who u r. Excellent luck and there is no rush.
July 17th, 2011 - 22:58
contacts, get some nice clothes, make sure you look after yourself, do your hair, have a shave and all that jazz. don’t try and change your personality but try to smile more and make people feel excellent about themselves (females of course) there are girls that like asian guys you know some even have fettishes about em so yeah find one of them. try doing something social like a sport or something else that you are interested in to meet new girls.
July 17th, 2011 - 23:52
just be your self and i find its sexy…..
July 18th, 2011 - 00:08
First off, disregard all this “just be yourself” bullshit you’re about to be showered with. That’s just a cop-out answer because people really have no thought what they’re talking about. Also, forget the ‘your perfect girl will come someday’ line.
F*ck waiting, start making life happen NOW! yamean?
Be ‘your BEST self’ you know what i mean? The single most attractive thing you can have is confidence.
Well if you can get contacts, do so. Nothing against glasses, but they might just convey a negative ‘nerdy asian’ stereotype. People judge, it sucks.
If you want to attract ANYONE, you have to have an attractive PERSONALITY. You don’t have to look like a model, but it should be evident that you take care of yourself.
Start eating healthier and drink water like it’s going out of style, this will do wonders for your hair and skin. Start working out, major confidence boost and you’ll just feel better all the time. (Endorphins doing work!)
Dress sharp, always. I don’t know how so many guys can walk out the door looking like slobs. Find your style and nail it. I can’t really help you here because this is a path you as an individual must walk. I like hip hop and urban clothes, you might not, so find yourself.
Now that you look like a straight baller, take a look in the mirror before you go out and tell yourself what a Sex God you are. lol jk
So now you look like a million, but how do you act like a million?
Do away with all negativity. don’t complain, don’t talk smack about others, and don’t ever.. EVER play the role of the victim. It’s a very unattractive quality, and no one wants to be around negativity.
Honestly, the best thing you can do (there’s more but I’m tired of typing, lol) is be playful and teasing. There is no pick up lines, magic techniques, or foolproof things you can do.
Just tease her, a lot. And always be naturally playful (don’t act like you’re on uppers)
I got a bunch more, but there’s a place to start. Normally I give useless and sarcastic answers because people on this site are stupid and I don’t want to help them, but for some reason I feel like hooking you up w/ my knowledge.
I got a bunch more, so hit me up (email) if you’re interested. There’s too much to type here and you might not even be interested.
July 18th, 2011 - 01:02
5’7” isn’t that small. There are TONS of women shorter than that, or you could just get a girl taller than you. Glasses on a guy can be really hot too you know. There once was this one guy in school I never even noticed and then one day he walking into class with glasses on and it was like he had gotten a total makeover. And no, nothing else about him was changed except the addition of the reading glasses. Needless to say I spent the majority of that lesson staring to my left. I recommend black horn rimmed glasses (no they’re not just for emos and harry potter. They look really excellent on most guys.)
A hint would be to choose ONE girl who you like and progress from there. Since your description sounds like your trying to hit on all your gal friends at the same time. Which is not cool. Single your lady out and spend time alone together with just the two of you. Don’t go out for “friends” type of activities with her too much where it makes it hard to talk together since your surrounded by other friends of yours and hers.
PS Dante’s advice is super excellent. So excellent I copied it for myself even though I’m a girl.
check out this guy!