An Excerpt From David DeAngelo’s “Secrets to Naturally Attract Women”
Below is an article by David DeAngelo on how to Naturally Attract Women.
It really stroke a cord in me when I first read it some years ago, in the infancy of my adventures to meeting and courting women. While I understood it logically at the time, it was quite hard to place the theories into practice.
With more interactions over time, these thoughts along with many others really gelled into my reality and made me internalize the concept of being naturally attractive to women. So check out the article, whether you are a beginner, intermediate or GODLIKE, I'm sure you'll find some valuable points. Here it is... delight in!
Attract Women
“The Concept Of Cool”
A major realization I had while watching my friends who were naturally excellent with women was that they had a “cool” vibe that women would instantly pick up on.
I noticed that when they met women, they would always have the attitude that the women were LUCKY to be talking to them. It was as if they subtly said “Do you KNOW who I am?” without really saying it, and without coming off as arrogant.
After watching enough of these guys, I came to realize that learning to be naturally cool might be the most vital thing you can do to attract women.
I know many cool guys who don't have it all together, yet they always have women. I also know a lot of “not-cool” guys who are very successful in all areas of their lives - with the EXCEPTION of women and dating.
A cool, confident guy doesn't beat around the bush. He'll always say what's on his mind because he knows that people value what he has to say, and he's not worried to piss someone off.
The trick is to learn and internalize the universal traits of “naturally cool” guys.
Here's a PARTIAL list of these powerful traits - pay careful attention to each one:
- The naturally cool guy doesn't care what people reckon about him.
A cool guy never places excessive meaning on any one interaction. He knows he can't please everyone, and he is really OK with it.
- His respect and friendship must be EARNED.
To gain his respect, you have to either be a friend of a friend, or show him that you are also cool. This holds right for both the men and women they meet. They give no “bonus points” for status, looks, or material possessions.
- He is open and honest, and never worried to state his opinion.
A cool, confident guy doesn't beat around the bush. He'll always say what's on his mind because he knows that people value what he has to say, and he's not worried to piss someone off.
- He is decisive.
If you question him if he wants to go somewhere, he won't say “I don't know” or “what do you want to do?” He'll tell you “yes” or “no”, whether he thinks it's what you want to hear or not.
- He is confident in his decisions
If you tell him his shirt is hideous, he'll tell you that you have horrible taste in clothing
- What he is doing is always the best thing going.
If a woman is talking to him about the fantastic time she had on Saturday night, you'll never hear him say, “I wish I would have been there.” He knows that whatever he was doing was either more fun or more vital.
- He is always the best thing going.
If a woman talks about another guy, he will always have the subtle undertone that she would have a much better time with him.
- Women never come first in his life.
He always has a purpose or a priority that is more vital to him than SHE is, and no woman will ever control him.
Take a minute and review these traits - find ways you can “internalize” them and make them your own.
When you do, you'll find they become an “automatic” part of who you are - and women will find themselves “naturally” attracted to you.
Read the entire Attract Women article here:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/meeting-women/secret-being-naturally-cool.html
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Train Yourself to Listen
You must train yourself to listen.
1) The inner wisdom. Most guys are not in the habit of listening to their deep self, the so-called inner wisdom that has nothing to do with logic. We are trained over and over to listen to logic by our schooling system. Our intuitive system is not trained by our school; it is really shut down by it.
2) Take initiative. Repeating information that you hear by a teacher seems to be the norm. It subtly trains you to do what others say instead of listening to your own inner voice. We are trained to discard all kinds of initiative coming from our core.
3) In the field. I want students to start taking initiative on the second night of BC. They must start thinking for themselves in the middle of a crowded venue. So they must turn around and pick and approach the first set that frightened them the most at once! Dread is their guide.
Pick up and intuition
It is not unusual for a guy to do the toughest set in a club and get the girl. Why? Because he had to tap into resources that he didn’t know he had. He kind of had to step up to the challenge. Once they listen to that inner intuition, they take more risks in the field. The more risks they take the better results they get.
Other times a girl tests the guy hard all night. She forces him to reach deep inside for that intuition and come up with creative solutions. It is not coincidence he gets the lay.
COACH INSIGHT
I remember one time years ago after running routines and openers for 4 hours (newbie mission) I was exhausted. I wanted to go home. I had only failure all night. Even fatties were dissing me. I got so outcome-oriented that I couldn’t hook a single set. I sat down on the sidewalk, ruined. Everywhere I saw people having more fun than me. I looked up to a bar and through the glass I saw 2 girls. I said, “one last set”. I went in, blew it open and 2 hours later I was banging the hotter one in her own living room while the other one listened from her room. In retrospect, I should have gone for the threesome.
Tapping into your deeper self
The small voice inside your head that tells you when something feels right or you are just off your internal compass treading on water. You have to train and retrain yourself to listen to that core sense of destiny, intuition, etc. Or whatever you want to call it.
Remember:
Lots of guys fall prey to acting according to pick up community rules or acting as if they have to prove they are excellent. Of course it all conspires against them in the field. The moments you had fantastic success was when you were inspired by something inside.
Steps to success
- Do you often do things that feel right to you, not just for others?
- Are you listening to your fears in the field while talking to women or do you take initiative?
- Do you talk to her when you should be kissing her?
- Do you avoid talking about relevant information about yourself in favor of “cooler” stuff?
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Biological Programming
Did you know that modern society has only existed for a tiny speck of time compared to our longer human history?
For hundreds of thousands of years, humans lived in perilous environments full of predators, competition, and scarce resources. Around the world, many still do today. But many of us have become accustomed to modern society where our jobs, money, shiny watches, and end-of-year financial statements seem to define what a man should do in order to attract healthy, gorgeous women.
But guess what, our biological programming is still the same as it were hundreds of thousands of years ago when our ancestors walked the Earth. Yes, she might be entertained with money, shiny watches, and expensive cars, but it won't be long before she sees through the thin veneer of superficial products which defines the average guy.
So enough of blabber, how can YOU start attracting women to your live? You start by approaching women you see on the street, in bookstores, coffee shops, bars & clubs. Start by smiling, walking up and saying "Hey what's up, I'm Steve (don't say Steve, say your name, hurr durr). You looked fascinating, I wanted to come and see what you were like." You'll need to be confident and dominate the interaction and BELIEVE in what you're saying.
You will see her light up because she knows deep down that it takes MAJOR BALLS to do what you just did. That in itself will separate you from many other guys.
You will also get rejected, but that's okay, because she's in a terrible mood at the time. Just reckon of it this way, you'll NEVER see her again anyway, so what's the point of dwelling on it?
So what are you waiting for? Be a social terrorist and TRY IT!
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